Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin

Becoming Comfortable in Your Own Skin

           At the age of 21 years old, I realized about myself that it is very difficult for women my age to have complete confidence in the person they are and how they carry themselves. I've met so many women and men in my life that are insecure, not only because how they look, but how they see themselves. I always post as my status on Facebook or Instagram; Self Love is the Best Love, and I truly believe in that.

          I grew up being judged by people who didn't even know me, and it hurt me. To see how someone can have so much hatred in their hearts for someone they know nothing about! It amazed me and it also frightened me. If I have that much power over someone's judgment based on my looks or how I carry myself, then that must mean I am doing something right, or something wrong. The more it happened I realized it was hatred towards themselves, because they seen something in me that ticked them the fuck off! (Excuse my language). But seriously it did. The type of people I hang around are a reflection of me. People may not like to hear that but its a true statement. I only choose to hang around people who motivate and inspire me, and that's what I do in return. They make me feel WHOLE and even in the midst of my obstacles and troublesome, they give me a reason to still keep fighting and believing that I have a purpose, and I will not let this world consume me. All I have is myself and God on judgment day so he's the only person I'm living for, I know my purpose and no one else can fulfill that purpose but me. I know myself and no one knows Me better then Me, and that goes for all women and men know one knows YOU better then YOU remember that!

       This post is to inhibit Self Beauty and Self Love to take pride of who you are and what you represent. Being comfortable and happy with your self and body is such a great feeling, and no one can never take that joy away from you unless you allow them. I'm still learning how to be comfortable with my beauty and my body and its a life journey, and I will continue to grow more and more love for myself. I want to be able to portray my inner confidence through the lens. I'm not quite there yet but I defiantly learning a lot and I see myself getting a lot better.

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